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My graduation party may seem like a simple celebration to some, but when viewed through an anthropological lens, it becomes a rich example of how gift exchange continues to shape relationships in U.S. culture. Drawing on Marcel Mauss’s theory of the obligations to give, receive, and return, as well as insights from Godbout, Benson, and Carter, I argue that cards, money, food, and even the thank-you notes exchanged at my party reveal a cultural system of reciprocity that strengthens social bonds during a major life transition. By examining how my community participated in this cycle of bringing gifts, supporting me, accepting hospitality, and receiving gratitude in return. I show that gift-giving is not just about the object but about maintaining connection, expressing care, and reinforcing shared expectations. My interpretation of this moment is shaped by my own position as a 19-year-old, white, middle-class, Christian woman, which influences what felt normal, meaningful, or invisible to me. Understanding my graduation through anthropological concepts helps reveal the cultural patterns behind an event that at first seemed ordinary.

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